First:

You must come to Him as you are a sinner guilty before him you must have a repentant heart ready to turn from sin no excuses. Rom 3:23 For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God; Luke 13:5 I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.

REPENTANCE: True and False

2 Cor 7:10 For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death. Repentance is the condition that we must meet to be able to receive the salvation promised by Jesus Christ. There are two kinds of repentance one that produces Godly sorrow and one that produces worldly sorrow. The heart is like soil if it isn’t prepard right the seeds won’t grow or they will wither and die after it gets started. If weeds or sin that has not been rooted out is left to grow then there will be no lasting or true conversion.

Second:

You must believe that Jesus is God come in the flesh and died on the cross for your sins, He shed his blood and was raised from the grave on the third day to prove that the penalty of sin was paid in full. Rom 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

When you believe in something you will have works to prove your belief. If you have a sturdy chair and you say that it will hold you up and never sit in it all you have is a profession of faith and not real faith. If you sit in the chair to prove it will hold you up you have real faith. So when you believe in Christ you will have works of repentance that is in restitution or apologies to ones offended or any such work that proves Christ came into your heart. You will produce fruits of good works as a natural outgrowth of your life.

Third:

You must ask God to save you and forgive all your sins, and ask Jesus to come into your heart and be your Lord and Savior and take control of your life. Rom 10:13 For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. Rom 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. 2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.

If you really meant these things and you believed them in your heart then you are really born again. Go and do the Will of God!

James 1:22 But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves. 23 For if any be a hearer of the word, and not a doer, he is like unto a man beholding his natural face in a glass: 24 For he beholdeth himself, and goeth his way, and straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. 25 But whoso looketh into the perfect law of liberty, and continueth therein, he being not a forgetful hearer, but a doer of the work, this man shall be blessed in his deed.